Thank you January

I had quite a few ups and downs in 2016 and the year ended with me having surgical treatment for endometriosis. Not wanting to dwell on the previous year, I was determined to have a positive start to 2017 but things weren’t quite going to plan…

It seemed like one thing after another as soon as January started: I was still recovering from my surgery, I developed a post-operative infection, and my incisions kept opening up after my stitches had come out; my tumble dryer broke; the baby safety gate fell off, again; the water from the hot tap on my bath was running cold and I had to get a plumber out to fix it, twice; and I had to buy a new car seat and pram for Molly. It was all money money money which is the last thing we needed just after Christmas. This definitely wasn’t the start to the New Year I was hoping for.

It would have been easy to sit and dwell, but under no circumstances was I willing to accept the negativity that was being piled on me.

It was time to get my big girl pants on and show 2017 who the boss was…

I have seen quite a few gratitude posts around and I think they are a fantastic way of reminding ourselves that even though life gets us down sometimes, there are always positives and things we can be grateful for.

In my quest for eternal optimism and positivity I have decided to start a monthly series of gratitude posts, so if I am ever feeling down or stressed, I can look back over these posts and remember the good things I have experienced.

So… I will just get on with it and say thank you January for:

 

Family walks

Myself, my fiancé Chris and our two year old daughter Molly have started going on family walks in the trail / wooded area close to where we live. It doesn’t take us long to get there and it’s a lovely walk. It is nice to be out in the open getting some fresh air, and a great way to add some gentle exercise into our day. My sister, brother-in-law and niece join us occasionally which is lovely.

 

Holiday to the Isle of Man

Myself and my sister took our little girls for their first visit to the Isle of Man. I have written a couple of posts about this which you can read here and here if you like.

We have family who live on the island so it was lovely to spend some time with them for a few days and the change of scenery was definitely needed.

 

Football

After a lot of mithering, I finally gave in and let Chris take Molly to her first football match. Of course I insisted on going with them. Molly is only two and a half so is a little young to be expected to sit still for all that time. It’s also the middle of winter so she would be freezing. Molly seemed to enjoy herself though, but she was slightly overwhelmed by the noise and amount of people there.

Luckily we were sat at the end of the row so Molly had a bit of room to get up and move around, which meant no tantrums. We brought a couple of blankets with us to wrap her up in if she got cold; she fell asleep on my knee towards the end of the match so I was glad of the blankets. Since the match, Molly keeps talking about going to football with daddy and wanting to wear her football shirt so she must have enjoyed herself. I still think she is too young at the moment though…

 

Date Night

Chris and I have been privileged to get time to ourselves on two separate occasions this month! We found ourselves with a Friday afternoon free and Molly was at nursery so we went and had a cheeky pub lunch. We also scheduled in a babysitter and had a date night. It is always nice to spend some baby free time together, especially when you don’t know how long it will be until you get to do it again.

 

Looking forward

Our social calendar for the year ahead is already starting to fill up which reminds me how blessed we are to have such lovely friends and family surrounding us. We have two weddings to look forward to later this year, we have some parties to attend, a family reunion and two occasions of nights away with friends booked in too. It is looking like a busy year ahead already, which is brilliant!

 

Even though January seemed quite tough at times, its actually been a really good month. Having everything written down really helps to remind me of that. I cannot wait to see what the rest of this year brings…

 

Sam x

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Tammymum

8 Comments

  1. The Aloha Mummy

    06/02/2017 at 11:47 am

    Date night is something we definitely need to be better at! Gratitude posts really help to keep us on track. 🌺

    1. stressymama

      08/02/2017 at 10:53 pm

      We forget about all the little things that happen to us so it’s nice to have something to look back on. I love date nights, they don’t happen as often as I’d like though. X

  2. momoftwolittlegirls

    08/02/2017 at 7:20 am

    Loved your Isle of Man post. One I remember.
    And I love the idea of a monthly gratitude post. We often forget all the little things so a written reminder will be awesome.
    #familyfun

    1. stressymama

      08/02/2017 at 10:57 pm

      Aww thank you. I appreciate that. I can’t wait to look back after a few months to remind myself if everything that’s happened.. x

    1. stressymama

      08/02/2017 at 10:58 pm

      Awww wow this is brilliant. Thank you. I love things like this x

  3. Tammymum

    08/02/2017 at 9:28 pm

    Ah absolute massive respect to you lovey. You have had a rotten January by you have still looked for the positive both behind and in front of you, it’s amazing. You have inspired me to do the same. I am glad you have had some positive in amongst the struggles too, lovely to read. Thanks for joining us at #familyfun xx
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    1. stressymama

      08/02/2017 at 11:00 pm

      Thank you. January was quite tough but there’s no point in dwelling is there. Even when things seem tough there’s always something to smile about x

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